marriage counsellor hamilton

Clinicians | Practitioners

Counsellors and relationship coaches in the broad area of couple relationship wellbeing


These practitioners include practices, independent of RSR, in adjacent regions.


    Debbie has proven experience in Intellectual Disability, Acute Mental Health, Wholisitic Change Therapy, Intergenerational Trauma, Communication Skills, Couples Therapy and Wairuatanga (spirituality). As a seasoned Therapist Debbie is passionate about advancing her own wellbeing alongside pursuing academic training and learning opportunities, with a focus to continue increasing her knowledge across her practices.
    • NLP Master Practitioner
    • Bachelor of Applied Counselling 
     Rotorua Counselling
    Debbie Cunningham

    Registered NZANLP, NZAC, Rotorua



    Henk uses research-informed approaches around improving couple communication, including: contempt-volume, talking-over, bickering, stonewalling, criticism, comparing, need for relational space and defensiveness.

    His experience also benefits couples where hard topics need to be discussed, or discovery of relationship infidelity has occurred, where betrayal trauma is present, or assisted transparency and a full disclosure process is preferred.

    • Post graduate work in conflict coaching

    Rock Solid Relationships

    Henk Ensing iEATA, IAMFC

    Relationships - Couples , Hamilton


      “Life doesn’t just happen, we make it happen, and sometimes we need a companion on the journey.” This is my basic philosophy regarding the work that I do. As a counsellor I am in someone’s life for a period of time to help them work through issues that they might find difficult to discuss with family or friends. I do this by:

      • creating a confidential and safe place for you to discuss problems you are having in your life
      • being someone who is non-judgmental, empathic and objective
      • a person outside of your normal relationships who helps you to focus on the issues in hand
      • helping you work through your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to see things from a different perspective
      • assisting you to identify and overcome obstacles that prevent you from achieving your goals and motivating you to accomplish more than you would alone

      I have many years of experience as a counsellor which means that I have a wide range of tools for helping people in all sorts of situations. I am very open to whatever problems people have, and will adjust my counselling methods to suit your needs.

      Bay Counselling
      Trish Goldstone MNZAC

      Counsellor, Bay Counselling