Ways couples can work through infidelity. Watch this video below before beginning the full disclosure process we discussed in the session. Once Trust is Broken, Can it Be Healed? Perhaps you might want to write down the main...
Asking Unhelpful Questions After Betrayal | Dr. Jake Porter Many times when we confront our partners in anger, we will begin to ask either too many questions or ask questions in ways that are not constructive. However this does not mean that these questions are the...
When you are the receiver in a conversation, it helps the speaker if they think that ‘you get it!’. That you more than just hear them, that you really get what they have said. A simple empathy statement can help with that.10 Scripted phrase Start your...
Fallen out of love? Quite often I’m visited by a couple where one partner no longer feels the love they once had. To them it seems that the love has gone. It can be easy for them to wonder if it will ever return. They may think that it does not seem likely. It...
This is the process to follow. There are four stages. The ‘scripted phrases’ act as markers. The ‘scripted phrases’ tell both people where we are up to in the dialog. Using the ‘scripted phrases’ can be helpful to both The Speaker...
It can be helpful to plan self-care after each couple session. Couple sessions can be draining, so planning for recovery from this can help you to heal. Self-care can be done with friends, alone, with your partner, or something else. It may be best not to discuss hot...
