Derailing Conversations in Relationships Couple conversations can sometimes get derailed. Derailment is a metaphor. It means that the conversation becomes like a train off the tracks. Sometimes this means the conversation stops, as one or both partners choose not to...
Would you like to borrow a book from my Practice Library? Several books are available to clients only. These two FD (Full Disclosure) workbooks are there for you to borrow too, if you are going through a full disclosure process. One workbook is for the ‘sharer...
It can help to set up a weekly meeting with your partner. Agree to have the Couple Meeting at the same time every week. It takes inertia to set up a first meeting, so setting it up as a regular meeting every week at the same time can be helpful. You never have to...
At the beginning of the session with me, I asked you to complete the online safety check. I’ve referred you to this page because I’m concerned about your safety. Choose a way to get safe immediately. 5 Ways to Get Safe Now (1st Responders) Check in on the...
This is post is specifically for blokes – Dudes who want to fix the relationship, dudes who are trying to sort stuff out. Let’s look at this through a gender lens. A gender lens can inform us of a helpful path forward. Sometimes guys may feel a strong need...
Disclosing Truth after Betrayal with Dan Drake, Janice Caudill & Dr. Jake Porter I use the Full Disclosure process discussed by Dan Drake and Janice Caudill, along with the choices it offers those going through discovery. So it seems helpful to gain understanding...